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  1. My story is too long to sum up briefly. I have no idea how much any of you know about MLP G1, but in the 1980s, Draggle was more like me than any other fictional character. My home life was dramatic from the start. I was born unwanted - my mother just never wanted to be a mother - and I was the least favorite kid by both parents. Both abused me, especially my mother, and my father left when I was ten and then we went bankrupt annnnd, well, the sum of the story is that my mother abused me from before I was born until I was 25 and moved out. Afterward, she tried to continue hurting me. I have PTSD. I have psychogenic seizures. I was born disabled in other ways, which my mother used as justification to hate me more. The labels of my at-birth disabilities have changed. Eh... Those kids whose parents told them to beat me up in the '70s, well, they beat up a girl who walked looking down at the ground whilst flapping her hands. At twelve, I stopped. I was hurt into "normalcy".

    Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:39:16 UTC from web
    1. @draggle wow, i don't know how to comfort someone from something like that? If it means anything I'm sorry those bad things happened to you >.<

      Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:42:54 UTC from web
      1. @rainbowdashismycopilot I'm fine. I have a lovely life doing things I love. Good friends, wonderful children, loving husband, sweet therapist, exciting silly life. ❤

        Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:45:23 UTC from web
        1. @draggle and ponies, don't forget ponies xD

          Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:45:51 UTC from web
        2. @draggle # *huggles Draggle*

          Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:46:20 UTC from web
          1. @darkcore *hugs of huggington*

            Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:47:38 UTC from web
    2. @draggle D: I'm in the same boat as @rainbowdashismycopilot here - I'm so sorry D:

      Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:43:53 UTC from web
      1. @haganbmj Oh, and don't you worry either. Eeep. Nopony worry!

        Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:03:24 UTC from web
    3. @draggle I just don't know what to say to this. I can't imagine what you went through. I'm sorry that you had to go through all those things.

      Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:44:59 UTC from web
      1. @bigponymac Like I told rainbowdashismycopilot, don't ya worry 'bout me. Good came out of it. Lots of goals and accomplishments came out of it. (I'm working on a Ph.D. in social services. I'm currently a teaching assistant for developmentally delayed students and I'm changing prejudiced attitudes in my students' school.) I think it all made me the person I was meant to be, and yeah, I have heartaches over it still, but I have people who love me and I just know it was worth it because I'm making it be worth it.

        Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:55:26 UTC from web
        1. @draggle I'm glad you look at it that way. The past is past and all that matters is what's happening right now. I'm happy for you.

          Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:57:23 UTC from web
        2. @draggle You've done so much, keep going - succeed.

          Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:00:56 UTC from web
          1. @haganbmj *looks at work she has to do over the weekend and sighs a sigh of tired* I will succeed!

            Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:07:14 UTC from web
            1. @draggle You're an inspiration draggle. Best of luck with the work as well.

              Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:08:51 UTC from web
              1. @haganbmj Okay, enough! Thank you! I feel embarrassed now!

                Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:10:23 UTC from web
                1. @draggle :)

                  Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:10:47 UTC from web
                2. @draggle Awwwwwwwww, she's blushing~~

                  Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:10:59 UTC from web
                  1. @zarkanorf Correct. Very much so.

                    Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:12:48 UTC from web
                    1. @draggle That means the love is working~ c:

                      Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:13:35 UTC from web
                      1. @zarkanorf *smooches your cheek*

                        Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:14:47 UTC from web
                        1. @draggle wah wub woo? '3'

                          Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:21:05 UTC from web
                          1. @zarkanorf wah wub woo woooooo <3333

                            Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:22:05 UTC from web
                            1. @draggle hnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng~~~ <3333333

                              Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:23:13 UTC from web
                              1. @zarkanorf ~~~~<33333333333 *snuggles* James is gonna be jealous.

                                Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:25:10 UTC from web
    4. @draggle I'm going to take a step in a different direction from whats been said: Congratulations. You fought your way through challenge after challenge to the top, and made a life for yourself. While I don't envy the situation you were in, I cannot help but admire your strength, and hope to draw some strength of my own from your story of success. More power to you. #

      Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:57:04 UTC from web
      1. @nutterguy Thank you. Nowhere to go but onward. I wish I had realized that sooner.

        Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:04:50 UTC from web
    5. @zarkanorf That's why I'm working toward a Ph.D. in social services. Saving young people from abusive homes is something I was born for.

      Friday, 15-Apr-11 04:58:07 UTC from web
      1. @draggle So you just got nominated for "Best Brony" in the 2012 Zarkanorf Awards.

        Friday, 15-Apr-11 05:01:56 UTC from web